Muneeb Butt Reveals Balanced View Regarding the Joint Family System-A Mix of Tradition and Independence
Actor Muneeb Butt recently expressed his support towards the joint family system in the light of its factors providing safety, security, and emotional support, especially to the newlyweds. Sharing his views on Samaa TV’s Gup Shab With Vasay Chaudhry about keeping the family united by resolving the issues of personal space and freedom, Butt said:.
Butt, who believes in the joint family lifestyle deep down, highlighted its benefits. “When you are newly married, many challenges arise that can be resolved with the help of your parents,” he explained. “If it’s just you and your spouse, and you’re not communicating during a conflict, who steps in to mediate? Your parents can play that role.”
He also cited practical advantages of living with family, especially in emergencies. “I’ve been in Lahore for the past 20 days, and I’m not worried because my wife and kids aren’t alone. My brother and parents are there to take care of things if needed. Otherwise, I’d be constantly concerned,” Butt remarked.
While Vasay Chaudhry shared his personal experiences growing up in a joint family, he also highlighted personal growth and space. Butt agreed, adding that the family has managed to balance this by adopting a “hybrid” living arrangement.
We all live in the same bungalow, but each family has its own floor. My family is on the ground floor, my brother’s family on the second, and my parents on the third. Each unit runs its own household independently. This arrangement minimizes conflicts while keeping us united,” Butt shared.
This approach, where families live under one roof but maintain separate living spaces, offers a thoughtful middle ground between tradition and modern needs. However, Butt acknowledged that such setups might not be practical for everyone, particularly for families living in smaller homes or apartments where space is limited.
In such situations, the absence of physical boundaries can put a strain on relationships, and the joint family system, which is supposed to bring harmony, is defeated. The views of Butt also led to discussions about the autonomy of couples, especially women, in deciding their living arrangements. Traditional setups, though supportive, can sometimes make people feel restricted or micromanaged, so it is essential to approach the topic with empathy and flexibility.
Ultimately, Butt’s reflections underscore the importance of finding a solution that works best for each couple. Whether it means staying with family or moving out to nurture privacy and independence, the decision should be guided by mutual understanding rather than societal expectations.
As families navigate the complexities of modern life, Butt’s hybrid model offers food for thought — blending the benefits of togetherness with the necessity of personal space.
